I loved my dress!!!

overall it was well worth it for having exactly what I wanted!!
I had to have it taken in (I probably measured incorrectly) and a bit of the beading has fallen off after a few try-ons and the wedding day but with beaded mesh that's not unexpected. I wanted the beading on the torso extended to at/just below the hip, the back closed, and the godets instead of a train because we got married in a garden. They made sure to implement my edits in the best possible way. It's obvious they kept my body in mind while beading.

In hindsight:
1)I would have had a tailor take my measurements
2)they put in the measurement instructions to already have shoes but I didn't so I just put like 6cm which made it difficult to get low enough shoes especially because the tailor had to take up the shoulder seam which shortened an already exactly floor length dress considering you will probably have it tailored when you get it I would have ordered it with like 6inch shoes in mind(you can always take away fabric but you can't add I ended up wearing ballet flats and it was slightly above floor length)
3) I would have asked for a bit more tulle in the godets it was a slight flare but another layer of tulle would have added some more movement to the bottom (my fault I could have told them to change it)